Saturday, July 10, 2010

It's Already July!

The girls finally let me do their nails again. Olivia wanted a 4th of July theme, so she got red, white and blue.



Brooke decided on fish. She likes fish. She'll even watch fishing programs with Grandpa Howard. We have pictures of her and Meng Meng (foster brother) with their foster parents out near a lake. She says China Momma took them fishing. Looks like Grandpa Howard may have a fishing buddy in the future!
One morning the girls re-discovered their bubble blowing equipment. They even have little battery operated bubble blowers with tiny fans. Fun was had by all until... Brooke stuck her bubble blower into Olivia hair and turned it on. The fan was instantly wrapped in Olivia's hair. Olivia howled like she was bleeding from a major accident. There was no way to unwrap it, so I went to get the scissors. Luckily, we just had to trim the ends. I gave Brooke the typical speech - don't stick whirling fans in your sister's hair. She listened and politely nodded her understanding. But the more I get to know her, I get the feeling she was simply nodding because now she understood she had a new weapon in her arsenal against her big sister. The surly, silent child from China is turing into a grade A prankster.



Maybe I was the only person on the planet who didn't know the 4th of July was going to be celebrated on the 3rd. What? Just because the 4th was a Sunday? So, we missed the 4th of July parade and festival on SATURDAY, the 3rd. Olivia was furious!!!! But at least we found out about the fireworks in time! We threw our chairs, blankets and snack food into the car and headed for our local Target/Kohls parking lot. They set off fireworks from behind the Kohls store, so it's impossible to have a bad seat. There were people there with huge campers and grills. It was obvious they'd been there all day! There weren't any good spots left on the grass, so we just parked and took over the shady space next to us


The girls kept themselves amused as we waited for dark, and Brooke kept her fan OUT of her sister's hair.



The really handy thing about "tailgating" in the Kohls parking lot was that when you had to go to the bathroom, you just walked into that nice, air conditioned store and used their facilities. Here's Olivia and her favorite, Cheeze-Its.




Then came the moment we had been waiting for!!!!!!!!!! Fireworks!!!!!!!!!!!!! Olivia loved them and "ooooh-ed" and "aahhh-ed" at all the beautiful colors.
Brooke? Not so much...
Even with earplugs, she HATED the fireworks. "So loud! Hurt my ears!" she grumbled. She looked miserable. But they really weren't that loud. Olivia is still very sensitive about loud noises and she didn't complain at all (she had her earplugs in, also).

Daddy helped out by covering one of her ears and she covered the other. And still looked miserable.


Daddy finally took over all ear-covering duties and in moments Brooke was... alseep.
In the middle of the fireworks show!!

At least Olivia enjoyed the whole thing from start to finish.


So, this year we feel we missed the 4th of July. We got to see the fireworks, but that was it. Nothing was going on on the actual 4th. Phooey! Better luck (planning) next year.
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The new thing with Olivia is that the girl really enjoys sports! (Mark is secretly thrilled!) Daddy took her and Brooke to buy real baseball gloves a short time ago. She is coming right along with catching and has branched out into batting. And she's not bad!! The very latest thing is badmitton! She'd play all day if she could. Unfortnately, the heat and the bug population is holding us back. The mosquitos love all of us, except for Mark. We can only go out if we're covered in bug spray - ick. Olivia has 28 bites on her legs!!! She looks like she has chicken pox! We've gone thru a gallon of hydrocortisone! We'll just have to wait for cooler weather. Or get up earlier... naww...




And then I found this elf in my hallway!


On Tuesday the 6th, Brooke had another celebration!
When we were in China, there was a brand new requirement (just in time for our adoptions - thrill!) of the US government that all newly adopted kids had to take a TB skin test before entering the US. If you failed the skin test, you had to get a chest x-ray. If you had (have) active TB, you couldn't enter the US. Slightly problematic for a family with a child who isn't considered a Chinese citizen anymore, but can't enter the US, either!! What is a family to do? Stay? Leave the child behind while he/she gets treatment, which takes about 9 months? Since we traveled, there have been several families with this problem. When Brooke's TB test turned into what looked like a big, fat mosquito bite, I began panicing about what I would do. Send Debbi and Olivia home, for sure. But then who would look after Olivia while Mark was at work? And where would Brooke and I live for 9 months in China? And how in the world would we pay for it?? Etc., etc. (The really irritating thing is that if she were just a tourist, she could travel into the US without any medical attention and hack her way across country, infecting everyone she met. But if she's being adopted - no, she can't enter the country and the family is thrown into legal limbo.) Because she had a positive skin test, Brooke (and one other little boy in our group) had to have chest x-rays. We literally held our breath while they read those films. Luckily, neither had active TB and was allowed to come home without further complications. Since she had such a positive reaction (the bigger the welt, the more positive the reaction), Brooke's pediatrician felt it would be best for her to undergo treatment for latent TB. It is given free of charge by the county and they even come to your house to administer the medicine. Brooke was not contagious, but she had the TB virus hiding somewhere in her little body. It might never activate, OR it could pop up any time and make her very ill, especially if she was still young when it activated (the younger the patient, the faster it will take them down). We didn't want her to ever have to worry about TB, and the cure was being handed to us on a silver platter, so we went for it.


That's how we met wonderful Nurse Tammy! She came out to our house, twice a week, for NINE months!!! She's great! At first, we were worried about whether Brooke would take her medicine. It is very bitter tasting, so kids don't like it. If they refuse to take the oral meds, they have to get suppositories. Nine months of suppositories. Blehhhhh... We tried peanut butter, but it was a no-go. Then Mark had a "light bulb" moment - frosting!!!! Brooke LOVES frosting. And frosting isn't wet enough to dissolve the crushed pill and spread the bitter taste. It's just thick lard that covers it up. We tried it and - vwah-la! - she loved it! So, as far as Brooke was concerned, Tammy was this really nice lady who came over twice a week and gave her chocolate frosting for breakfast! What ever works!!!! (Brooke owes Mark, big time!!)

Tuesday was Brooke's last dose of TB antibiotic!!!! Tammy brought cupcakes to celebrate. We gave Tammy a tile Brooke made at the pottery place with her handprint. Olivia painted her a little flower dish. Those nine months went by so fast!! Brooke now has a less than 1% chance of ever developing TB. But, she'll always test positive for it, so we'll have paperwork to show she's already been thru treatment. We feel better knowing she won't have to give it a second thought as she gets older. Interestingly, Meng Meng's TB test was negative (yeah!). We were worried he'd be positive since he and Brooke were exposed to most of the same things while in China.


Thank you, Nurse Tammy!!!
Tomorrow marks Brooke's One Year Anniversary of coming to her new home in the United States!!!!! (I was never so glad to hit US soil!!!!) To commemorate the day, we will have lunch at... MacDonalds!! Yeah - I know it sounds goofy, but MacDonalds was her first meal upon entering the US, in the Newark airport. She LOVES MacDonalds. (Daddy will cook a steak for us old folks for dinner.)
I can't believe she's been with us a whole year. On one hand it seems too soon, but on the other hand, it seems like she's always been with us. What more could we want????? (Ha! Mark says he's too old for any more!)

2 comments:

  1. Awww...that is tooo sweet. I just love those girls (and mom too!). I'm going to miss seeing you guys twice a week. This morning I kept feeling like I had forgotten something...then I realized that it was my first week of not seeing Brooke and Olivia! I love the pics!!! Hugs!! Nurse Tammy

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  2. I would love for you to follow along on our journey to the twins- could you send me your email address? Your girls are adorable! I am looking forward to following your blog as well.

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